There are few fears in each and every human being. Few fears such
as losing something or getting rejected are quite common to many.
Getting rejected could be in an interview or in any proposal or anywhere
does hurt. Once this fear of rejection gets a toll of you then the next
step you take is to avoid all the circumstances that will lead you to
rejection. It could be in your personal life or in your career
prospective; this fear can lead to disasters in your life. Conquer your fear of rejection is the way to progress in life.
Let us speak about getting rejected in an interview.
Rejection is not just painful but also comes to your mind again and
again. You might have many sleepless nights also. Sometimes the
situation might not be too bad but only because you are rejected, the
whole thing might look too big for you. It is the way you mentally deal
with this situation is what finally matters. To forget all and move
forward is very difficult thing to implement but this is the only way
forward. It surely does take time and you will have to try till you can
put out this rejection fear out of your mind. One of the best ways to
conquer your fear of rejection is to learn from the mistakes you
have committed in your previous interview. Even if you think logically,
you have a fear because you doubt yourself of answering correctly and
are low at confidence. The only way to clear your doubts and boost your
confidence is to be better prepared this time.
Making sure you find right answers to the questions you have not
answered correctly in previous interviews is the first step towards
boosting your self-confidence. Rather than putting the question can I do
it, ask why I can’t do it. It’s a difference of a single word but is
capable of removing fear from anybody for sure. Seeing yourself in a
mirror and saying this can help you even better at times.
Always remember there are two aspects when it comes to conquer your
fear of rejection. One aspect deals with gaining better knowledge. The
other aspect does deal with improving your self-belief. Combination of
these two can only help you to come out of the fear of rejection. A
positive thinking mind can also help you in many ways. Might be some
better job is waiting for you. Thinking so will not let your morale fall
down. Your success will only get sweeter if you achieve it after a
failure. And another plus is you will not be afraid of failure as you
have already tasted it. So seeing the positive side of rejection will do
much good to you than just feeling that it is your failure. Thinking
positive is good but this thinking should help you to work harder
towards success and not make you complacent. This sought of change in
your approach is the way to conquer your fear of rejection.
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